If This Weren’t So Wildly Off Base…

…I’d be more worried – and I’m still worried because I’m sure most people watching this won’t have any idea what’s wrong with this! And it can spread incorrect ideas!

I….literally last Friday after I posted my Quick Takes about “Angel’s Last Mission: Love” it got even more wildly theologically inaccurate and problematic, in a particularly horrifying way.

Spoilers ahead for those who care!

Main character Kim Dan is an angel responsible for sending animals to heaven (?) who constantly causes trouble in the way he does this (??), and finally saves the life of human Yeon Seo, which he’s not allowed to do (???). He’s about to be turned to dust (!) except that all the animals and people he’s saved due to his disobedient, troublesome antics (!!) have made prayers of thanksgiving, so he gets one last mission so he can go to Heaven instead of getting Thanos’d: help Yeon Seo find love.

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Of course he falls in love with her as he’s not supposed to, and we find out another angel, now by the name of Ji Kang Woo, fell in love with Yeon Seo’s doppelganger years ago. He was an “angel of art” who was supposed to inspire artists, and fell for this ballerina, specifically told God he couldn’t give Him all his love now (!), and asked Him to bless their relationship since God had clearly led him to her (!!), and then proceeded to have a face off with two other angels (!!!) who rightly told him God’s will is more important than our feelings. He replies that God is cruel, why did he give him a heart to love in the first place (!!!!). The other angels pull a gun on him (?!?!?!) and tell him he’ll lose everything else he loves, while Yeon Seo-doppelganger  – who can see nothing of the other two – runs to him and promptly gets shot and dies.

Cue montage of Kang Woo trying to kill himself and failing because he’s an angel.

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Even putting aside that God doesn’t dust anyone for their sins, faults, and mistakes…

There are SO. many. things. wrong with this. I’m no angelology expert so if I say something wrong, please please please correct me. I don’t want to lead anyone astray – which is why I’m gonna try to stick with what’s in the Catechism here.

The whole angel-human forbidden romance thing is just flat-out antithetical to what it means to be an angel. Angels aren’t humans, they love and serve God, they don’t have a body and as far as I know, no feelings. Again, as far as I know, their choice to serve God or not, if we have to speak in terms of time, has already been made. So, it’s not simply that such a romance is forbidden as it’s literally impossible.

The Catechism reads,

With their whole beings the angels are servants and messengers of God. Because they “always behold the face of my Father who is in heaven’ they are the “mighty ones who do his word, hearkening to the voice of his word”[…] As purely spiritual creatures angels have intelligence and will: they are personal and immortal creatures, surpassing in perfection all visible creatures, as the splendor of their glory bears witness…Christ is the center of the angelic world. (CCC 329-331)

Angels are spirits, not corporeal beings, and they have “intelligence and will” – nothing about heart or feelings or anything in that way human. They are also God’s servants and messengers and have Christ as their center – and they ALREADY see God. They’re not on a mission to get to Heaven – that’s us, humans.

Not to mention that rejecting God is a sin and was the sin of Satan and the other fallen angels who followed him. Again, we have the Catechism:

Behind the disobedient choice of our first parents lurks a seductive voice […] a fallen angel, called “Satan” or the “devil”[…]Satan was at first a good angel, made by God […] Scripture speaks of a sin of these angels. This “fall” consists in the free choice of these created spirits, who radically and irrevocably rejected God and his reign […] It is the irrevocable character of their choice, and not a defect in the infinite divine mercy, that makes the angels’ sin unforgivable. “There is no repentance for the angels after their fall, just as there is no repentance for men after death. (CCC 391-393)

Meaning, if we assume that Kim Dan and Kang Woo truly are angels (despite evidence to the contrary), that makes what they’re doing even worse: they’re freely, irrevocably rejecting God’s will – truly becoming fallen angels. And we’re meant to sympathize with them because they’re “falling in love.”

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Well isn’t that just fantastic.

All I can say is please, DO NOT WATCH THIS SHOW. Perhaps it’s hypocritical of me to say and do, but I’m going to finish it because I want to, and because I want to see where it goes, but I am NOT RECOMMENDING it. I’m just writing this post since I already mentioned the show and don’t want people who read my blog to think I’m endorsing the ideas it contains and/or promotes. And also to help better inform people about what the Church actually teaches about angels.

It’s such a shame because the acting and the basic premise of the story are actually quite compelling – Myung Soo’s acting has improved dramatically (ha), Shin Hye Sun can pull off a multitude of characters, and every time I see Lee Dong Gun in something (a grand total of twice) he’s intense and I love his acting.

 

If You’re Not Well Grounded, Beware BTS

Now this might seem like an odd post from me, considering that I have talked about BTS on this blog and in positive terms, and I’ve even been to a concert. I very much enjoy their music and parts of their message and still do! But note parts of their message. Not all of it. This is because I’m Catholic, and certain ideas expressed in some of their recent comebacks and the literary works these comebacks reference are antithetical to my beliefs.

Specifically, Herman Hesse’s Demian and Carl Jung’s ideas.

I had only ever encountered a few Herman Hesse quotes (which I quite liked) before BTS came out with Wings and “Blood, Sweat & Tears” (herefrom BST). Once the teasers came out, everyone kept going on about Herman Hesse’s Demian, and so I decided to read it. I found it on Project Gutenberg or whatever, printed it, and read most of it (some pages got mixed up so I couldn’t finish all of it). And I came away with the conclusion that Demian is dangerous.

Why? Because it creates poisonous half-truths. Demian’s protagonist is extremely relatable, wherein lies the book’s greatest danger. Emil begins with a black and white view of the world: one half is bright and happy and good, and the other is shady and dark and evil. Any fall to the dark side is a complete and total, irreversible moral failure – until he confesses to his crime and all is well again. Until he falls again and the cycle restarts.

I know this cycle very well – it’s the cycle of scrupulosity and it makes you focus on rules and toeing the line and on your actions, how much you can control, and causes you to ignore God and His mercy. This focus often comes from a well-meaning place, but it’s extremely misguided, and Emil (and probably Hesse’s) upbringing seems strict enough to have encouraged this behavior. But no one in their right mind wants to live this way! It’s so fearful!

Which is what makes Emil so susceptible to Max Demian’s bosh about Cain not being evil and there being a god of the dark, evil side of life (including murder and puzzlingly sex), and how both the good God and the “evil” god Abraxas are necessary. An absolutely trippy, sad tale of debauchery, dissolution, and isolation ensues, in which Emil ends up intoxicated and/or high from various substances at various times; and in which he falls in love with the idea of a girl, whom he then somehow sublimates into Demian’s mother whom he had met when he was younger, and the way in which he speaks about it rarefies his infatuation with both women into some spiritual enlightenment experience.

Honestly I felt a sense of unease that grew greater and greater as I read this novel (novella?), which was topped only by my absolute exasperation at Emil’s descent into madness because of its ridiculousness. Because really, that’s what happened. The book got trippier as it went along and just became weird and uncomfortable. And let me tell you, I’m not dumb – I’ve been reading all my life and follow stories very well. This one is certifiably nuts. To The LighthousePortrait of the Artist as a Young Man, and The Sound and the Fury are like straight-up fairytales compared to this.

Although I dislike BTS using this novel as an album/song/MV concept, I understand why. The idea of good and bad, dark and light both being essential forces in the universe, and a proper balance of them being necessary for harmony, are ideas woven deeply into Eastern culture in general – and Hesse studied Buddhism, learned about India and even went to India, so he would’ve been exposed to such kinds of ideas. It’s apparently standard reading material in Korean curricula (surprise, surprise).

Interestingly, Hesse and Jung actually knew each other, and Jung’s ideas are pretty much the same as what Hesse articulated in Demian – I believe Hesse even wrote Demian after having befriended Jung, so for all I know he could’ve gotten all his ideas from Jung! Ever since BTS’ Map of the Soul: Persona came out I’d heard Jung mentioned, and I only had the barest knowledge of Jung because of the MBTI craze that occurred while I was in college. Other than that, I hadn’t heard his name associated with anything good.

I decided to look into Jung a bit, and from what I’ve learned he focused on life being a quest for wholeness through self-actualization, which was accomplished by focusing inward on the unconscious and becoming aware of it. He delved into the occult and also apparently used Christian spiritual terminology to describe psychological ideas, mixing and melding the two in entirely problematic ways, setting up one’s own self and psyche as God. (He seems to have had a distinctly unscientific approach to a science.)

Like with Freud (who also knew Jung, and also had a distinctly unscientific approach to psychology in certain ways), not all of Jung’s ideas and observations are bad. Is it good to be aware of the ideas and behaviors we demonstrate and perform unconsciously? Yes! Because we want to live purposefully, and as we learn more about the human mind we learn how different events and phenomena can affect a man to his core with him none the wiser unless attention is brought to it.

Is he correct that we often present one or more faces to the public but that our innermost selves are often different? Yes, most definitely. Man has good reason for keeping parts of his life private, and also has the desire to conceal his flaws from others.

And is he right that humans struggle to come to terms with the sinful, flawed parts of themselves? That often they ignore it to their detriment? That they should learn to accept it? Certainly! Men always prefer to ignore their own faults, and would like to think they’re perfect. We have to accept that we are flawed and that we’re not perfect, and have to own our sins and faults as our own and not being imposed from the outside, and not belonging to someone else, and be ok with being imperfect. But along with accepting our imperfections and sinful natures – in fact, the only way we can do that – is in accepting God’s love and mercy (and accepting our need for it). And, of course, we cannot simply acknowledge our sins and flaws and then remain in them – we must strive to be good and perfect, while not letting ourselves be discouraged by our sins and faults.

And this is where, at least superficially, Jung goes badly wrong.  He divorces man’s identity from God by setting up man’s self and psyche as a god. But we are not self-determined – we find our identity only in God. Our goal in life is not simply wholeness, but rather right relationship with God, which makes us whole. We are the ones who broke ourselves, and we will never be whole until we do our part to mend that relationship.

So where BTS’ message reminds us that we should love ourselves and accept and acknowledge our imperfections (“Epiphany”) and not hold ourselves to impossible standards and pretend to be something we’re not just to please another human (“Fake Love”); that no matter how hard or dark life gets there is hope (“Tomorrow,” “Spring Day”); that life is more than a materialistic rat-race – a big issue in Korea – and should be lived in the present, not the future (“Paradise”); in essence, wherever BTS’ message acknowledges true human experience (however superficially), it’s good.

But where it draws from Demian and Jungian thought, where in the BST music video it drove the director or whoever to (however unintentionally) sacrilegiously have Our Lady’s portion of the Pieta crumble, and caused someone at BigHit Entertainment (BTS’s agency) to come up with the idea of a skit mocking the sacrament of Confession for one of BTS’ early “Run! BTS” episodes; wherein it encourages BigHit to sell a book of Jungian ideas on its website – where the message fails to encourage people to look to God and rather to look inward, self-ward, and navel gaze and pretend that is gazing at God: that is where it is dangerous.

Insofar as you can enjoy BTS music without delving further into Hesse and Jung, be my guest. But if you are tempted to pursue these ideas even by hearing mention of them, please, please give them a hard pass, no matter how much you may see them around these days. Ever since Wings and reading Demian I’ve been disturbed and saddened by that choice of concept because of just how influential k-pop groups, and thus BTS is, on their fans, and had hoped with the rest of the Love Yourself series that they had left it behind – but it seems just to have been an undercurrent and thread all throughout.

Again, I beg you, if you cannot in this instance separate the good from the bad then do not even embark on it. Find another group. Listen to DAY6 because they’re amazing. Stray Kids. GOT7. EXO. Infinite. Or no k-pop at all! There’s plenty of music out there besides BTS.

If I Have to Come Up with a Title I May as Well Make It Lengthy

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Sorry I skipped last week. I really need to get on this so I stop apologizing. Blech. (And stop making my Quick Takes post titles sound like a new anime.)

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It’s been a strange week. My parents are visiting some relatives and are coming back tomorrow, so I’ve had the house to myself for a couple of days. It’s nice to have some time alone, but having them back will be wonderful.

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I started watching (and may yet finish) this drama called Fated to Love You, which is apparently a remake of a previous drama. The premise initially was just kind of blah for me: a woman ends up pregnant after sleeping with a rich guy at a resort. Then Dramabeans recommended it as an alternative to Doctor Stranger , (which I don’t have the requisite emotional energy to finish) so I thought, “Eh, why not?”

What especially struck me about one episode were the pro-life element and the Catholic element.

(Sorry! Spoilers!)

Due to a very unfortunate accident, instead of sleeping with the man she came with, Kim Miyoung ends up sleeping with and pregnant by rich business heir Lee Gun. Being–I don’t know if I can call her a pushover or not, but, being overly-solicitous for others and concerned about the wrong things, Miyoung’s initial decision is to abort the baby. Lee Gun insists on going to the hospital with her, but finds that she’s gone without him, so he runs after her. He arrives during the ultrasound, and both of them are amazed by it.

Sadly, when it comes time to sign the paperwork, Miyoung signs it, as does a surprisingly reluctant Gun. All it takes to crack his resolve is his personal assistant (who is always following him around) handing him the ultrasound picture while he sits in the waiting room. He bolts and drags Miyoung from the operating room. (The only thing I don’t like about this scene is that they play his running for laughs: jumping over patients, sliding under gurneys. I felt that it took away from the seriousness of the situation for a moment.)

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I’m glad that she didn’t want to go through with it, and I’m glad he didn’t either. I’m sad that she saw it as a viable option: she didn’t want to give the baby an “unblessed life” as the child of a single mother, or have the child be a “burden” to Lee Gun and his girlfriend. Children are never burdens, and life is always blessed because it is good. Children are always a good thing, no matter the circumstances of their birth.

What’s nice, though, is that when she found out she was pregnant, Miyoung went to see a priest though she’s not Catholic. (Turns out he wasn’t actually a priest but was playing hide and seek with kids and used the confessional etc. etc.)

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That impulse, on her part, was agood one, and even though Daniel wasn’t a priest he did what any priest worth his salt would do: counseled her to tell the father of the baby, and prayed with her when she asked him to. (He also should have more strongly encouraged her not to have an abortion when he ran into her at the clinic, but no show is perfect.) A priest is shown as someone who has a measure of authority (as in being dependable and wise) and someone to be respected. Not some dithering flapdoodle or stern oppressor.

Neither of these instances means the drama is automatically good, but they encourage me to keep watching. So, we’ll see how it goes.

(And yes, apparently flapdoodle is actually a word. I did not know that.)

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Perhaps I shouldn’t be quite so struck by this–but I’m continually amazed at how Christanity is sympathetically portrayed in Korean dramas. Not that it is promoted or always properly portrayed, per se, but it is present and not mocked, and religious characters tend to be good people. Heck, in one episode of Doctor Stranger I paused the video because I noticed that on a hospital wall–and not just a teensy portion–was a painting of the nativity.

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It’s just so rare to see priests and the Church in general rightly and sympathetically portrayed in secular media. I hope that they continue to do so, and to do it right. (I’m not sure if the drama creators are under the mistaken impression that we worship Mary, or if devotion to Mary is popular in Korea, but we see statues of her more often than crucifixes.)

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(You know, I think I’ll just keep typing things in parentheses, since I seem to be using so many asides today anyway.)

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I also just finished a book called Between the Lines by Jodi Picoult and her daughter, Samantha van Leer. Cool premise: storybook characters are actually alive in their stories, and live in the book, waiting to play out their roles whenever Readers open it. However, Oliver is tired of being stuck in the book and wants out into the Otherworld. Luckily for him, Delilah happens to be obsessed with his book and is able to hear him talk. Cue impossible love story.

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The premise is cool, but not new: Roderick Townley did it first with Into the Labyrinth (a book I very much enjoyed). The set up of the book was also neat: we alternated between Delilah’s and Oliver’s POV, as well as bits and pieces from the fairy tale Oliver belonged to. The occasional illustrations were nice, and the little illustrations in the margins added to the atmosphere of the book.

Here’s the but: the ending felt…blech. Oliver ends up sending someone else in the book to take his place so he can stay in the real world with Delilah. This someone else, Edgar, is perfectly happy to go. But no one talks to Edgar’s mother about it. No one questions whether Edgar doesn’t have, oh, I dunno, responsibilities and duties to his mother, or whether Oliver has duties and responsibilities to his fellow characters. The point that maybe Oliver should be content with what he has, and perhaps should stay in the book, is brought up but never seriously considered.

After an excursion into the book Delilah learns to be content with her life, but Oliver still desires to leave his book, and Edgar leaves the mother he treats poorly to live in a storybook. Delilah learns a measure of lessons about accepting reality–not in a cynical fashion, but as it is–while the other two don’t. And it goes ahead and ignores some important things like parents and other people. Not to mention that Oliver and Edgar look identical and I think he plans on impersonating Edgar, so deception will inevitably be involved.

But, that’s how it ends.

Which is sad, ’cause I liked the idea.

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(And just for kicks, I’m going to leave you with some unclosed parentheses

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